๐ฑ Building a Big Tent with Motivational Interviewing
Part I: The Heart & Science of Changing Minds
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How can we change minds to change societies? Today, we kickoff our September series on deep canvassing as GOTV season looms. One of the most successful persuasion campaigns came from a LGBTQ advocacy effort. Read on for more...
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Today's main story is from a piece I wrote in 2021 about motivational interviewing and extending empathy to a community that has only been more vilified and attacked since then: queer and trans people. This month, I'm offering ideas on changing minds and building bigger movements. We've been sucked into division from social media and other tactics, but that is not how we will create real change for the future.
Originally published: June 3, 2021
๐ Happy Pride Month! ๐
As we kick off a month of rainbow flags and Love Is Love salutes from major corporations (itโs called rainbow washing), this month is also a reminder that the LGBTQ+ community still has a ways to go.
- LGTBQ+ kids make up close to the majority (40%) of homeless youth.
- There are 69 countries in this world where itโs a crime to live your life authentically if youโre gay.
- Trans people are 4x as likely to be the victim of a violent crime simply for existing.
Even those in the community who live a privileged life, like myself, face homophobia from unexpected corners. Homophobia can come in many different forms. It can be as extreme as actual violence or as subtle as a cold, dismissive attitude towards a member of the LGBTQ+ community. And itโs even possible to be homophobic by not calling out or dismissing homophobic behavior (the same thing is true for not acknowledging the BLM movement).
There are many causes of homophobia including religious beliefs, but the most dominant is the cultural and institutional forces that dictate our society. We live in a patriarchal society. For many, homosexuality is a direct assault on those institutions. LGBTQ+ people donโt always follow clear-cut gender roles and so they are challenging the systems that dictate how a man and woman should behave. But the sad thing is, as with most bigotry, homophobia hurts everyone. It means children canโt grow and explore things they love if they fall out of their traditional gender roles (dolls for boys and spaceships for girls. Space is just cool!), it impacts same-sex friendships, and it limits peopleโs free expression of themselves.
And that pernicious fear and phobia bring us to our topic today: Motivational Interviewing!
If you are reading this, I assume you are at least socially liberal and want to see all people treated fairly. Maybe you even want to actively help make that change in society. But how do we do that when so much is polarized and everyone has retreated into their own camps? (hmm I wonder where Iโm going with thisโฆ)
What is Motivational Interviewing?
Motivational interviewing is a more profound method of communicating that involves deeper conversations, a lot of listening, and reflection. In the political world, itโs a deeper form of canvassing. Motivational interviewing is just one powerful tool in the deep canvassing toolbelt. The idea is to elicit emotionally significant experiences and encourage reflection from the person who is set in their views to influence change.
Why Motivational Interviewing?
It actually works! The goal is to elicit behavioral change, which is not as easy as weโd all like. Have you ever tried to scare, blame, reason, or rant to change someoneโs mind? Howโd it work out for you? Probably not great.
The reason for that is because itโs usually a one-way conversation. Itโs telling them how they should feel. As my good friend Isaac Newton said, โto any action, there is always an opposite and equal reaction.โ That type of one-way communication usually puts people on the defensive, they lock up and are harder to change.
But motivational interviewing is less about talking and more about listening. When the Journal of Science evaluated an effort to reduce transphobia in South Florida, they found the very first case that actually reduced prejudice (the first-ever!) in a measurable and long-lasting way. And all they did was talk to people for 10 minutes! Check out the report, it is truly fascinating.
โWhat weโve learned โฆ is that a broad swath of voters are actually open to changing their mind. And thatโs exciting, because it offers the possibility that we could get past the current paralysis on a wide variety of controversial issues.โ - David Fleischer
Next week, we'll dive more deeply into the simple ways to think about motivational interviewing so that you may use it in your everyday life and on your canvassing shift!
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Iโve recently been researching the history of the non-profit industry to help explain the gap between the promises of the non-profit world and its real impact to create systemic change. So I was extra impacted when I stumbled on Elizabeth Silleck La Rueโs piece about classism in the ENGO World. As Iโve written about before, climate colonialism means that poor communities are facing the worst of the climate crisis, while billionaires build walls. Elizabeth illustrates how hiring folks who've experienced poverty will build a stronger organization and allow us to come closer to achieving systemic change. I encourage you to read the full piece, but here are a few excerpts:
- โWhat I learned from being poor, though, was a level of resourcefulness, efficiency, creativity, and pragmatism that our world, and the Environmental Non-Governmental Organization (ENGO) sector, seriously needsโ
- โThe sort of efficiency that poor people know how to leverage implicitly is also a dire need as it relates to our cascading environmental crises โ materials circularity, reduction of emissions and materials associated with manufacturing, packaging, shipping, etc. โ doing more with LESS rather than buying more with MORE, is something humans must implement if we have any chance of saving ourselves from the excessive pressure we are putting on the planetโs systems.โ
- โCreativity and frugality are more imperative now, however, as global inequity is pushing more and more people to the margins and absorbing more of our collective resources into private corporate mechanismsโ
- ๐ Oligarchy In the U.S. Elections - Just 50 billionaire families have already injected more than $600 million collectively into the 2024 elections as of May. This number will grow as we inch closer to November. (source: americansfortaxfairness.org)
- ๐ค The Root ๐ฑ - We cannot live in a country where the wealthiest can buy elections (ahem, Jamal Bowman would like a word). The right-wing justices of the Supreme Court used Citizens United to let money pour into politics. Harlan Crow got a good return on his investment. This election is also about SCOTUS reform!
- ๐ Judge Absolves Officer Who Shot Breonna Taylor, Blames Boyfriend - In the middle of the night on March 13, 2020, police raided the home of Breonna Taylor without any warning. Her boyfriend reacted to protect them from the strange men with guns invading their home. A judge has now ruled that the police officer who shot Breonna Taylor while she was still laying in bed was not at fault. Instead the judge blamed the boyfriend for having a gun. (Also, support Black journalism! This piece was from Capital B)
- ๐ค The Root ๐ฑ - May there still be Justice for Breonna Taylor someday. ๐ Her story is the story of so many Black people. How would you have reacted in this situation? The simple truth is that police and our criminal justice system rewards police violence, because the system is designed to protect the state, not the people.
- ๐ฌ The FTC Gets Non-Compete Clauses Banned - Last month, the courts upheld the FTCโs ban on non-compete clauses from new job contracts starting on September 4th. The Head of the FTC, Lina Kahn, speaks to More Perfect Union about its implications for workers. (source: @perfectunion)
- ๐ค The Root ๐ฑ - If you canโt tell, I like Lina Kahn. More importantly, a Harris win means that she can keep fighting against corporate profiteering and greed. Billionaireโs are literally funding Trumpโs campaign because they want to oust Lina Kahn.
- ๐ฌ Stopping Settler Violence with the International Solidarity Movement - Dottie Lux, a Jewish American activist from San Francisco, spoke with 48 Hills SF about being in the West Bank with the International Solidarity Movement (ISM). The group documents and reports human rights abuses from Israeli settlers destroying and displacing Palestinian (source: @48HillsSF)
- ๐ค The Root ๐ฑ - Most folks in the U.S. are not fully aware of how Israeli citizens and the IDF work together to kick out Palestinians living in the West Bank. This is not unlike the settler violence that occurred in the Western U.S. against indigenous people, except they're using bulldozers and machine guns now.
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